A big reason why men use violence at the rates that they do is because they don't fear consequences. A lot of their a lot of them had a reaction that was almost extreme where they said, "If there's false rape accusations out here, then I'm never going to be alone with a woman ever" Instead of trying to lessen men's fear over false rape accusations, we should actually be like, no, you know what? Like, if you make a woman have a bad time during sex, like they don't see it as rape. So we won't say rape. We'll say like, if you fail to make this a pleasurable experience for her, that's the