I've never laid my hand on a woman in any way like that, it's never happened. The only hand you should raise in your own home is one to maybe put your kids in line. I don't plan on punching my kids and that we weren't punches kids But man, we had our asses beat a lot,. You know what I'm saying? What's why is that okay? Yeah, but I mean dude, I think the answer is it's not okay.