Do You Have Judgments and Assumptions About Your Status?

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I think it's really hard to interview with somebody in what would be considered the decade where you're likely to have kids. And I've noticed that there can be sort of this stigma attached to somebody who does not want children and is very open about that. "There are so many ways to be a nurturer, particularly in the workplace," she says.

If you aren’t married and don’t have kids, people at work might assume a lot of things: that you can stay late at the office, that you can’t possibly understand their stories about parenthood, that you just haven’t found the right partner (ugh). But those assumptions are often false. Single childless women have busy lives, close relationships with children like nieces or nephews — and many don’t want coupledom or motherhood.

We talk to two women who’ve been researching and writing about being a single childless professional. The writer Shani Silver shares her experience with the career pros and cons, and then Tracy Dumas, a professor at Ohio State University, gives research-backed advice for responding to bias and unrealistic expectations.

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