I Need a Girl, Preliminary Stages of Dating

If men were to take a non-possessive approach to dating and women like, I need a girl, how do I get? Not how do you get like capis approach with all the wisdom I have now. Girl maybe expresses interest in me, or I ask, got a girl, preliminary stages of dating, or girl, just whatever. I'm like, look, here's the deal, dude. We're not getting married, we're not living together. I'm not having any kids, I have a vasectomy. We can hang out. Like, it'd be the most libertarian agreement ever. I frankly don't care if you're banging other guys, just