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This chapter delves into the hurdles encountered during personal development efforts, focusing on the emotional and belief-based barriers that inhibit progress. It also contrasts the notions of 'should' and 'shouldn't,' revealing how these internalized beliefs can create frustration in various aspects of life.

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In this episode of "A Changed Mind", our host, David Bayer, explores the concept of acceptance and non-judgment in personal growth and relationships. David challenges the idea of "should" and "shouldn't," arguing that everything happens as it should based on countless factors.

David illustrates this principle through examples of parenting, workplace dynamics, and global issues. David emphasizes that resisting reality creates suffering, while accepting "what is" opens up new possibilities for change.

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What We Explored This Episode

5:07 The truth about "should" in relationships

10:13 Accepting reality to find solutions

15:18 Retiring judgment to reclaim personal power

Memorable Quotes

"The problem is not the problem. The problem is our denial of the reality of the situation. When we can accept that the situation absolutely should be what it is, then a solution can emerge."

"Wherever you feed your energy, that thing is going to grow. Rather than investing energy into solving the problem, invest energy into being the solution."

"We are going to change your life together. We are going to change your bank account together. We are going to change your health together. We are going to change everything together. And we're going to change the world together."