When Focusing on the Wrong Things Backfires

Episode Description

You wrote that internal mission yesterday. You know what drives you.

Then Tuesday arrives, and you spend the entire day defending things that have nothing to do with your vision.

Emails that don't matter. Meetings that go nowhere. Drama that isn't yours.

Scott reveals the harsh truth nobody wants to hear—80% of what you focus on daily has zero connection to what you ultimately want. But here's the twist: You're not just distracted. You're actively protecting the things stealing your vision.

Discover the one word that changed everything for Scott and why relevancy might be the filter you've been missing.

Featured Story

Scott used to arrive home with a bottle of wine picked up on the way and a bit of an attitude.

He'd been told for years to focus more. So he did. He focused harder. Pushed harder. Worked longer. Said yes to everything that seemed important.

Things got better in some ways. Awful in others.

The real problem? He was producing massive results that had absolutely no relation to what he actually wanted to build in his life. He got really good at getting results, but those results just kept him busy and drove him

crazy.

Then he stumbled on a straightforward word that changed everything: relevant.

Now he comes home and says, "Hey, honey, I'm home," and takes his wife out for spontaneous date nights.

Same focus. Different filter. Completely different life.

Important Points

If you're distracted, you're not unfocused—you're just focused on the wrong things.

Every time you say yes to something irrelevant, it creates three more irrelevant tasks to fill your day.

You're not being distracted from your vision—you're actively protecting things that are stealing it from you.

Memorable Quotes

"I began to put my energy and my focus into what is relevant to the result I want to achieve in my life."

"When nothing else matters, what's important matters more."

"You're not lazy. It's not that you lack discipline. You're defending the wrong things."

Scott's Three-Step Approach

Pull out that internal mission you wrote and look at your calendar, to-do list, and commitments.

Ask one question for each item: Is this relevant to the results I want to reach in my life?

Let go of anything not connected to your internal mission—delegate it, automate it, or say no to it.

Chapter Notes

0:26 - 80% of your actions aren't aligned today

1:22 - Why focusing harder makes things worse

2:41 - Massive results that drove Scott crazy

3:21 - One word that changes everything: Relevant

5:36 - The Pareto Principle twist nobody sees

6:35 - You're protecting what's stealing your vision

7:39 - Filter your calendar with this question

8:41 - 80% isn't distracting you—it's stealing

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