Introduction

The 14 Rules of the Discernment of Spirits with Fr. Timothy Gallagher with Kris McGregor

Episode Thirteen: Rule Eleven – Humility in Consolation and Trust in Desolation

Episode 13-The Eleventh Rule:

Let him who is consoled see to humbling himself and lowering himself as much as he can, thinking how little he is able for in the time of desolation without such grace or consolation. On the contrary, let him who is in desolation think that he can do much with the grace sufficient to resist all his enemies, taking strength in his Creator and Lord.

Episode Thirteen of The Discernment of Spirits: Setting the Captives Free focuses on Rule Eleven, a rule that brings balance and maturity to the spiritual life. Fr. Timothy Gallagher, in conversation with Kris McGregor, explains how Ignatius teaches the soul to remain steady whether it is experiencing spiritual consolation or spiritual desolation.

Fr. Gallagher describes Rule Eleven as a kind of spiritual portrait. Ignatius addresses the same person living through alternating experiences of consolation and desolation. Rather than treating these moments separately, this rule shows how to live both wisely and faithfully. The goal is balance. The result is spiritual maturity.

Ignatius first addresses the person in spiritual consolation. When God’s love is felt deeply and prayer is filled with joy, the temptation can be subtle. A person may begin to rely on personal strength rather than grace. Ignatius counsels humility. The one who is consoled should lower himself as much as possible, remembering how little he is capable of in times of desolation without God’s grace.

Fr. Gallagher illustrates this wisdom through Scripture and lived experience. He reflects on the words of Mary in the Magnificat. Her soul rejoices in God, yet she remains deeply aware of her lowliness. Consolation does not lead her to self-confidence. It leads her to humility and praise.

By contrast, Fr. Gallagher recalls the experience of St. Peter on Holy Thursday. Peter sincerely loved the Lord and believed he was strong enough to remain faithful. Yet he relied on his own resolve rather than grace. When trial came, his strength failed. Ignatius’s counsel protects the heart from this kind of spiritual fall.

Ignatius then turns to the person in spiritual desolation. Here the temptation is opposite. The heart feels weak. Prayer feels empty. Discouragement suggests failure is inevitable. Ignatius counters this lie directly. The person in desolation should remember that God’s sufficient grace remains fully present, even when it is not felt.

Fr. Gallagher explains that this truth restores courage. With God’s grace, the soul can resist every spiritual enemy. Nothing essential is lost in desolation. The capacity to remain faithful endures. By recalling this truth, the heart takes on new strength and regains confidence.

Rule Eleven holds these two movements together. In consolation, the soul avoids becoming naively high. In desolation, it avoids becoming despairingly low. Humility and trust work together. The soul moves forward steadily toward God.

Episode Thirteen presents Rule Eleven as the mark of a mature discerning heart. It teaches how to remain grounded in joy and courageous in struggle. In both states, the soul learns to rely on grace rather than feeling. Freedom deepens. Stability grows. Captives are set free.

Discerning Hearts Questions for Reflection and Study

Personal Reflection

1. How do you usually respond when prayer is filled with joy and clarity?

2. Do times of consolation ever lead you to rely on your own strength?

3. How do you tend to interpret your abilities during spiritual desolation?

4. What helps you remember that God’s grace remains even when it is not felt?

5. How does Rule Eleven invite you to greater balance in your spiritual life?

Group Reflection or Study

1. Why does Ignatius place Rule Eleven at this point in the series of rules?

2. How do humility and trust protect the soul in opposite spiritual states?

3. What do the examples of Mary and Peter reveal about consolation and trial?

4. Why is remembering God’s sufficient grace essential during desolation?

5. How might Rule Eleven help form mature discernment in parish communities?

 The 14 Rules for Discerning Spirits –
“The Different Movements Which Are Caused In The Soul” as outlined by St. Ignatius of Loyola click here

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Father Timothy M. Gallagher, O.M.V., was ordained in 1979 as a member of the Oblates of the Virgin Mary, a religious community dedicated to retreats and spiritual formation according to the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius.  Fr. Gallagher is featured on the EWTN series “Living the Discerning Life:  The Spiritual Teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola

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