How Do You Take Care of Yourself?

i was not allowed to use heat on my hair, color my hair or wear make up very often. i am more comfortable and confident being able to do those things for myself that i have never been able to do my entire life. It's your freedom. I would say that transition is definitely bloomed full force over the last two years. And a so once that relationship ended, i kind of went on a journey the last six years since my marriage ended, to find myself again.