Calvinists - Is Your Daughter Stronger Than You?

When you hear a calvinist say that we think we're sovereign, that would be equivalent to when i was dealing with my four year old daughter and i chose not to pick her up and physically force her to go to her bedroom. I'm comparing physical force with the supernatural, irresistible, effectual grace, ok? Its analogy. And what does it do? It forces the person who is in rebellion against god to completely submit to god. He actually dies all those things. So what dos it tell you? And i it tells you that you need him, that you don't have the abilities that you thought you have. You're not actually the sovereign like you thought you were.