Picking Your Fights

i think tat there's something to be said for picking your fights. i don't want people to go crazy and try to avoid every regret, because there are a lot of regrets that we have. In ten days, ten weeks, ten years, it's not going to matter. What is going to matter? Did i say something to some one i cared about? Did i do the right thing? And did i create some stab ity for myself and for my family that matters?