Is Stasis the Thing That Results in Ruin?

If you are presented with two major life choices, choose the one wih the least stasis. As i get older, and also as I see my parents age, stasis becomes something that is foisted upon you. You really have no choice at a certain point. And when you are younger and able to make like, big moves, big, big, forward momentum moves, you really need to take them - even if they could potentially result in ruin.