Bob Greene: What can we say in terms of portable mindsets or skills for other people to make the same kind of transition on transitions, if that's not too much of a mouthful? I feel a little bit inadequate in giving anyone advice, but I'll give it a shot. One of the things I would suggest is to hold in your present that you are going through a transition and have some sort of amount of time that you are allowing for it. Maybe even do a little research on it.