I'm Sulking in the Corner - Is She Defeating Me?

"I very much have this belief or this idea, that people should just know. I was smiling, for those you were watching this video, when jenna was describing the person sulking in the corner," she said. "i secretively think maybe she was describing me." She says it is really scary to become aware of whatever it is that we might need and then communicate that to some one else. There's a reason why many of us don't do it. It feels raw. It feels vulnerable. But if we keep holding the expectation that the person just know, we're going to continue to have our needs unmet.