How to Get Out of a Relationship That Feels So Inconsistent and Toxic

Three years is a long time to be in love with someone and I want to confess that like I think of my most unhealthy relationships I would have stayed in all of them. It can be really hard to find that line sometimes in thinking about and working through what we went through while not letting it sort of dominate or take over our lives. You know you said like I'm so ashamed that I would have like stuck it out but that's what we do. Totally.