417 - Are "Safe Spaces" Possible in Relationships?
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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The Importance of Emotional Freedom
Civility can really be weaponized like you just said and it can be functioning sort of as a form of dismissal or minimizing or even potentially gaslighting valid reactions things along those lines imagine tone policing would fall under this carrot this category yeah absolutely. Whenever i see the word civil civil discourse i immediately get hives because it has always been a way to silence women silence black people right? It implies a certain way of talking with each other that is the accepted way and if you do anything outside of that then you're suddenly uncivilized, she says.
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