I've Never Really Joined a Friendship Group

For close minded people, it's like the opposite issue, rightwhere you have to like learn to be more vulnerable and to like, b ok with change. Whos the balance? Don't know if i've ever truly established a friend group, but i guess i've joined one or two here and there. Someone actually very recently added me into a messenger group chat, a which i'm fine with being in. But messenger, when you get added to a group chat with someone who is like your friend or something, then it goes to message requests, and then it doesn't leave message requests until you send a message. And i think i've been in this group chat now for almost