Oner i can completely understand that. I've met a ton of people who are very emotionally, like, not overly cognitive, and at the same time, are also incredibly manipulative. It's kind of silly how it kind of fell into my lap, so to speak. Oner i didn't really have any relationship experience until i was 22. When i was 22, i a, i tos h sound really bad. Am, so i hado through this, this kind of like cold calculation to be able to find myself in a position to go through that,. because i wanted to to solve that problem.