Friend, Friend, Friend

In marriage, what keeps the foundation is purpose and friendship. In fact, if you're interested in somebody and you want to be more than friends, one of the worst things they could ever do is friend on you. There are several references he made like, no greater love than this than he who lays down his life for a friend. And i thought, it's a research and i noticed that really only two times in the text that jesus refers to somebody as a friend.