Husbands Trying to Lead by Example

I want to put out there in the universe for all you married guys, right? So I'm the guy for 10 years that have been letting my wife do everything because she's so good at it and probably not helping as much as I should with things like Christmas or birth. And then I come in at the end and wrap some stuff and I'm a big hero. But this year I decided, you know what? So we actually set a date and we had a we had a date where we went out like shopping. It's the most unromantic date I've ever had, but. She said this is the first Christmas since we started a family that like she's not stressed