I tell my dates and maids podcast listeners three dates. As long as you're interested enough to get to spend another day with them, then you go to the second date. I definitely see that and see how many people are looking for an immediate yes, no in the first date. And so what I recommend is that people actually design dates that are more fun. Some things that they can do are just adding a sense of play into it.
Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist at the dating app Hinge, says making dating decisions based on initial chemistry alone is a losing battle. In this episode, dating coach Damon Hoffman speaks with Ury about her book, How to Not Die Alone.
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