How Do You Coach Someone to Be Curious About Their Stuff?

Tracy: I'm hearing in this conversation that everyone's got stuff. How do you coach somebody to be to be curious without maybe being probing or being inappropriate about somebody else's stuff? Pat: When you've built enough trust, that is purely an act of love. Tracy: Let's talk about why we don't do these things individually. What are your thoughts around that, Pat? We fear that it's going to work against us.