How to Make People Depend on Coming?

I don't think anthony robins sits down and says, how to i make people depend on coming? Not at al but by as he grows. I'm sure someone has figured it out, maybe possibly, but i haven't seen it very well most of the time. You know, i think it's arealy important story to tell ourselves because it makes us matter. It makes us matter not in an egoic, naticistic sense, which you could mistake it for or go down that way. But in the sense that you were action matter, and what you do with your time and energy matters. And i think that's a story worth telling and one reflecting on.