The Problem With a Mob Member

My great grandfather was a good Catholic firefighter who just wanted to go on and raise more good Catholic firefighters, two generations worth. His brother got involved in organized crime and his line state is still involved with organized crime so to speak. So now it's like you've reached out to a mob member and you're like, hey, I want to get to know you. So, hang out. Honestly, that's probably the most creative way to like approach a mob member. Like yeah. And now I understand why the mob guy was like, what the hell is your agenda?