Your way of being must be grateful in order to attract new things. So instead of saying that you're not enough, that you don't deserve success, what if you looked in the mirror on a daily basis? It could be like this cup of coffee that I have right now. Or if you felt like you weren't deserving of a loving partner and just kept focusing on the wrong people. Start distancing yourself from those typical patterns that you've had in the past. And see what you attract from that loving, grateful place with yourself.