Three Ways to Draw People Into Your Circle

Nino de lonclo, the seventeenth century courtesan and strategist of seduction, believed that disguising one's intentions was not only a necessity, it added to the pleasure of the game. A man should never declare his feelings, she felt, particularly early on. What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is often short lived. An elusive, enigmatic oura will make people want to know more,. drawing them into your circle. Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you. Send mixed signals, both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthy, both innocent and cunning. The desire to please can annoy and offend children