We've conflated a love and liking a lot. The real like the love that i'm talking about is unconcerned with your gender identity, sexuality, or whether or not you swear. I'm tolking about your true self, not pete. Talk about the animating spark in me that is love that's always chosen yes to all things the deep. And one of my passions is making the distinguishment between love and we jesus said to love y neighbour, but he didn't say, like your neighbor. We think we have to wind ourselves up and be like but cathy's a great driver. Find something you like about kathy and lean into that. That