The Fear of Being a Victim

I think there's also this legitimate fear of like I don't want to be a victim I'm gonna play the victim here. No That relationship can always be always be deepened and healed and And sort of solidify you you can surrender into his love more and more and more. We're looking at wounds because the relationship with the father is so Essential for us being us for us being ourselves for us being free um Maybe wounds is a really I mean, I can ask what word did we use before we were using words?