You have to wrestle with the idea that your father is a violent psychopath move on it's interesting though you know you can take that and run with it. There might be something good to get to use it i mean this is the time to really examine your life and i just think it's a very personally exciting time of renewal for that family it's maybe and people might not agree with this but in my mind it's probably the best thing that could have happened make that photo bigger make it bigger this is the most interesting thing that has happened to these people.