Is This a Wound Response or a Response to Feeling Deprived?

"When something is being I gotta think of the right way to say this okay so like you know like a dog like so say a dog it no," she said. "We react in ways that are so subconscious to our being um those triggers those wounds are activated and and their wounds and triggers that we inherited in childhood in a way that we don't even know" She continued: "It's an opportunity to have a little bit more compassion for yourself and to really set the standards for whatever relationship you want."