I'm a Good Decadent Guy, You Know?

Melanie shared with me the book. She's like, Hey, check this out. You should read it. And I was like, okay, is are you trying to tell me something? What's what's going on here? Gary: There's this thing that you talk about of like, I'm a good guy. But good decent guys don't cut it. Oftentimes, although we think we do, right?Gary: We require most in order to have healthy lasting relationships is trust. He says intelligent people can speak and act in a manner in which other person feels heard, understood, cared for.