Helping Joe, Episode 4
The Mating Grounds Podcast
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You Don't Want to Be a Dude but You're Not Engaged at All
Don't be one of those naive people where it's like they're fascinating right what. If you go in with the expectation that man I'm gonna screw up this date then you are gonna screw it up. You should instead be thinking I'm about to meet a fascinating person somebody who's really fun and I'm gonna treat them as such. Until they show me otherwise right away. Read charisma myth for research because basically whenever two people meet each other they're looking for two things warmth and competence. What do they think of me how good are they at their job can I rely on them. Those are the two things everyone's trying to measure. So make sure this won't be your problem
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