Barbara: We have to be so careful with trying to change other people, even if we are convinced that the advice we have for them is better than the ideas they're currently acting on. Barbara: If you ask someone to change too quickly, you might destroy them. There is no such thing as a piece of advice that is so good that it can't be abused or misapplied in a way that actually makes your life worse. All right, y'all. That's our minimal episode for today. Check out the back half of this sold out Sunday Symposium, our final Sunday Symposium,. You can check out the maximal edition of episode 387 on the minimalist's private podcast