How to Reconnect With Your Parents Every Year on Your Birthday

As he gets older, my mom and his dad have passed on. I can almost see their faces that my birthday comes around. That's not the memory I want to have the most vivid. You get to reconnect with your parents every year on your birthday no matter what happens. Can I do dishes with a washcloth from now on and just avoid sponges? "I'm pretty sure that qualifies you"