What Is the Essence of Who You Are?

Sobene: What is the essence of who you are? Most would tell you, well, i am this is who i am. This is wat my identity is derived from this, this, this and this. It's not always positive. You could have a body that looks worse than other people's body,. And that serves too. So if you can't have a positive one, the negative ones can be just as strong...You can have a huge victim identity. But tode an identity is a delusion. To derive a sense of identity from that is a huge delusion. That’s all my life. If you are not all those things, sobene asked, who