The Biggest Problem in Relationships

Sara says she could have avoided this if she'd picked a job in an industry where she had more knowledge. Therapists point out that in any relationship, there are not two, but three parties,. You, the other person and the relationship itself. What's usually to blame is the relationship, the fit between you and me. When people get negative feedback at work, they don't wallow in self pity or lash out in anger. They become motivated to improve.