How Jane Austen's Characters Experience Love Differently

Jane Austen's characters seem to experience love differently they seem to be better able to distinguish between real and lasting love versus an infatuation slash crush slash passing interest. I think sometimes people forget that what makes you happy might require thought and a little unhappiness to get to the point of feeling happy we say oh don't worry about it but I think that's a little unfair to young people like I feel that they really analyze their feelings or Jane's heroines where they really think about who who would make you know make the better attachment as they call it. Money is not always a consideration though conveniently they always end up rich right right mr. Darcy Frederick Wentworth got his fortune