The Importance of Breath and Posture for the Feminine

A man cannot create safety for the feminine if he is perceiving her unsafety or her feeling upset as a problem. That's not going to make her feel safe. It's going to feel forced. For the brothers listening, we don't create safety for her if we perceive her unsafety as a problem to be solved. Seeing it as a problem as something to overcome reveals her own level of insecurity. There is no problem and therefore there are no solutions to be found. Imagine for a moment that she can be exactly the way she is. And you don't depend on her to be in your power,. To feel expansive, to feel present, to feel strong, to feel grounded.