Is She More Butched Than Femme?

This is like that fake thing with the chick who went to the restaurant in Europe and they're like, Oh, we better have everybody watch your fries. She's more butched than femme. People are baffled by her appearance and they're also baffled by the fact that she can speak English. When my white husband appears at school to speak with the white female principal, he's treated like an involved concerned parent. Well I'm construed as reactive demanding and hysterical. There's a bit of general hysteria throughout this whole article.