The Importance of Immediate Attraction

One of the most pervasive myths in society about relationships is this idea that attraction needs to be immediate. We can feel attraction immediately, but any subsequent attraction really has to be based on us and them and folding together. It's also important to distinguish between somebody who expresses genuine interest in you or they've obviously had not got an idea about it. To somebody who's actually pursuing you because they like the challenge of knowing that you are not interested, I don't know,. They're picking up a vibe, that you're not available, and then they're thinking to themselves, right, I'm going to break down this person's walls.