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In this Think It Through episode, Drs. Derek and Laura Cabrera of Cornell University explore a struggle many people quietly live with every day: a negative inner voice that puts you down, limits your confidence, and distorts what you believe about yourself.
They explain how this voice often isn’t truly “yours,” but something you’ve adopted over time—sometimes from school, authority figures, or traumatic experiences. Drawing on systems thinking, metacognition, and identity–other dynamics, they walk through a practical process of learning to notice the voice, distinguish it from your own, and gradually flip the relationship so it loses its power.
Through personal stories, vivid metaphors, and concrete daily practices, this episode shows how small, consistent acts of awareness can weaken the voice that hurts you and strengthen the one that’s actually yours. It’s not about silencing thoughts overnight—it’s about radical incremental change that restores agency, clarity, and self-trust.
If you’ve ever wondered why you talk to yourself the way you do—or how to finally stop believing everything that voice says—this episode will help you think it through.
