Just over half of mothers say they have mixed feelings or some sort of ambivolence about their relationship with their adult children. A lot of people at our age, don't have enough respect for their kids to ask them for help and to create a violental relationship. The way to do it is to not just give, but also asking them to give to by this is the most generous thing you can possibly do.
Last week, our expert Arthur Brooks gave us some surefire advice for resetting the parent-child relationship so your kids don’t treat you like an emotional ATM. On this episode of How To!, he’s going to teach our listener, Karen, how to balance the books, so to speak, by taking some withdrawals of her own. He has some surprising tips for how to restrain yourself from swooping in to save the day when it would be better to let them figure it out. Starting with a hilarious story of the time Arthur’s adult son called him—pantsless—from Las Vegas.
If you liked this episode, check out part one: “How To Parent Less.”
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