The Effects of Incompatible Attachments on Relationships

People who tend to in emotional situations tend to shut down feelings and then try to be overly analytical disorganized people conversely want relationships but have a very very strong fear of the people who are closest to them just as they feared their parents and childhood pens. When an anxious or disorganized person seeks attention from someone who's emotionally avoidant the avoidant will become more and more emotionally shut down. These patterns are not only found in couples but they're often found in workplaces for example emotionally dismissive narcissistic bosses who tend to not be empathetic that much.