Is There a Brand of Public Universal Friend Silverware?

The way you refer to the public sal friend is a big part of the friend's story, because the friend in the friend's life preferred not to use any pronouns at all. The style guidea dictates that we use the pronoun of a person. Does it make you sound dumb when you're writing about the friend, and every time you say the friend's name, you have to call the friend the friend? I mean, you make it sound like scholars are not clear retroactively on how to how to refer to the friend.