There's some neurology on this apparently where they say it's like women are more torn up by breakups originally. And so they allow all the emotions to move through them, whereas men in our society anyways are more typically not allowing those emotional movement and therefore the heartbreak can take much longer to heal than to get over. So that's kind of a neurological explanation for it. What my experience is is that when we're young, we get taught what love is on a non-intellectual basis, right? Which is I love my parents. We equate maybe criticism with love or we equate neediness with love Or we equate toxic wanting us to change with love on it, whatever it

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