The chapter highlights the importance of having conversations focused on understanding rather than proving a point. It delves into asking deep questions, active listening, and setting goals to develop effective communication skills as a superpower. The discussion includes insights from challenging mediation sessions that emphasize the significance of active listening and techniques like looping for understanding in conflict conversations.
Patrick Donley (@JPatrickDonley) sits down with best-selling author, Charles Duhigg to discuss his latest book, Supercommunicators. You’ll learn why Charles decided to become a writer, how challenges in his own life have led him to write his best-selling books, what supercommunicators do that average people don’t do in conversation, how to handle hard conversations using a technique called “looping,” what his hopes for the book are, and much more!
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:
00:00 - Intro
02:56 - Why Charles decided to become a writer.
06:47 - Why his most successful year was also one of his hardest years.
11:03 - How writing Supercommunicators solved a problem in Charles’ own life.
11:03 - Why it is important to understand the matching principle.
16:27 - What do supercommunicators do that average people don’t do in conversation.
23:23 - Who his supercommunicator role models are.
27:44 - What is neural entrainment.
30:27 - What are the 3 buckets of conversation.
35:46 - How to handle hard conversations using a technique called "looping".
42:53 - What his hopes for the book are.
And much, much more!
*Disclaimer: Slight timestamp discrepancies may occur due to podcast platform differences.
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