Relationships - What Is My Boundary?

i think it's a real radical thing to be looking at yourself in these instances, rather than kind of blaming something on some one else and saying, like, wl, you did this to me. Some people are clearer on their boundaries than hers. And so again, if someone isn't up front about their boundaries, that doesn't mean they don't exist. I gave yout to be real heavy about it, someone actually being physically abusive to you in a relationship is not somehow your fault cause you didn't have a good enough boundary,. or a strong enough boundary, or something. Those are sort of two separate things.