The Impossible Part of the Imperative

Most people operate from a place of protecting themselves, which results in avoidance. And then you end up an new there's a metaphor in the book where it's like when we're born, we have access to this beautiful castle with infinite rooms. But because we don't want to feel certain feelings or be in certain situations, and we try to control and predict life, we end up really like one room that we have mastery over. So i think it's really that desire to feel safe and to protect ourselves from any harm that leads to things like our impending doom generator. If we can only have a dream that's bigger than our fears, then that's when we can pull ourselves over that