Divorce, Prenups, Daddy Issues & Healing: Real Talk with My Girls Martha, Vita, Isabela, and Camila
Not Alone
Renegotiating marriage over time
Valeria and Isabela describe renegotiating marital expectations and evolving needs in long-term partnerships.
In this special “Miami Besties” episode of Not Alone, Valeria brings together the most memorable, honest, and vulnerable moments from her conversations with the women closest to her. The episode begins with friend Vita Sidorkina, whose conversation dives into raising resilient kids, the value of honesty with children, and the Russian cultural principles she still carries. Plus, an open conversation about how “daddy issues” can shape who we choose to marry and life with a husband who is 20 years older. Next, Isabela Grutman reflects on what marrying young taught her, navigating the early modeling world, and the reality of “high-value” men. We also get into long-term partnerships, and what it means to renegotiate your marriage as you evolve. Then, Martha Graeff opens up about her first marriage, the courage it took to prioritize her mental health, and the financial realities of leaving, including why she believes prenups are empowering, not limiting. Finally, Camila Coelho shares her deeply personal experience growing up with epilepsy, from getting diagnosed as a child to managing her condition as an adult, and the stigma that still surrounds it.
Together, these conversations reveal the raw, real, and resilient sides of womanhood, friendship,and the stories that shape us.
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What we talked about:
0:26 - Setting up the “Miami Besties” Episode
1:53 - Introducing friend Vita Sidorkina
3:22 - Start of Vita
3:26 - Bringing back honest communication with children
5:09 - People being too soft
7:28 - Russian values Vita holds on to
9:50 - Not growing up with childhood trauma
11:15 - Daddy issues & marital age-gaps
15:21 - Introducing friend Isabela Grutman
16:22 - Start of Isabela
16:26 - Wasting people’s time
18:06 - Marrying young vs. later in life
21:47 - Modeling at a young age
22:57 - Women looking for high-value men
23:53 - Lessons from marriage
25:15 - Not taking everything personally
26:18 - Renegotiating the marriage terms
30:01 - Introducing friend Martha Graeff
31:07 - Start of Martha
31:28 - Early days with her ex-husband
33:35 - Prioritizing mental health
35:16 - Financial aspect of leaving your marriage
36:09 - Importance of a prenup
38:25 - Introducing friend Camila Coehlo
39:41 - Start of Camila
40:19 - Getting diagnosed with epilepsy as a child
44:00 - Managing her type of epilepsy
45:55 - The stigma around epilepsy
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