Are Sex Is Good, but What Could Make It Better?

This is a great question to ask your partner. If it was 1% better, what would we do? What would we not do? What can we do more of? And that's a really great way of thinking about it in terms of better because then you're not feeling overwhelmed. You know, but it's a matter of trusting yourself that you can work through it and you can find a way. This is an opportunity to build your character...to strengthen your relationship"