Ramesh: I have a fantasy that once you've got sufficiently organized, then there's no more pain and stress. And oliver pointed to this sort of phantasy that i think we often have, that i w when he identified it. The column that i wrote was part about this habit of making to two lists out of fun stuff. Those lists can inspire adventure and action, but i think they also can very easily become their own kind of chaw. Ramesh: You should enjoy the journey rather than the destination.